Ego

A person likes to look for mercy or like to surrender to one where his ego is not disturbed. This means it is possible with one has no ego or someone has higher consciences. That's why easily we could be ego less while playing with babies or young kids. So what we can do is get higher consciences or be with higher conscience person. When we talk negatively, conscience will act like ego, otherwise ego could be higher conscience. Ego should not be disturbed at any cost, if not it leads to all kind of problems. Experiencing gratitude can make ego less and happiness. What is ego, it is nothing but feeling what you don't have it.